“Ming, 1st thing I want you to know is that I treat you like my own brother alright…. I am trying to help you find the one who will like you and if you meet someone who wants marry you …. thats even better. I might use the wrong way….it seems like I taught too much in such a shot time. Maybe that was my fault because I spent my whole life here to figure out what women want, but I want you to know everything in one night…..that was my fault. But……, I am really upset ….not because of you, it was because of those girls you had talked to. You are a cool guy, and we all love you to death but you cant show them too much about who you are at once, you will freak them out. Sometimes you have to learn try to be an asshole not a really asshole…just a little bit like, and don’t be a nice guy all the time. If they know you are such a good guy they will make fun of you instead of trying to find out how attractive you are. How many times I had watched you talked to those girls…I know they like you, but u have to be a little asshole, dont show them too much. How many times I saw those girls played with your cheek and said how cute you are. I was really sad to see that….NO ONE can treat my man like this, if I see they do this ever again…….I am gonna fucking kill them…they cant play with you like that just because you are a nice guy and you are not a American. Fuck them….if they ever do that again I am going to throw them out right through the window…. You got it..!! Just try to find your own way to talk to them and relax and a little more like an asshole…..then you will find someone who will love you to death……alright buddy??”